What makes something kinky? What
one person finds odd, another will do without thinking twice. Kinkiness,
like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. Some of the stuff
listed here will gross some of you out (some of it squicks me..),
others will page through it thinking "What does he mean,
'kinky'? I do this all the time..."
There's also a big difference between
having a kink and having a fetish. A kink is an activity or accessory
that you enjoy, while a fetish is one without which you can't
get any pleasure.
c r o s s - d r e s s i n g
Besides, while they may be horrible for
your back, you gotta admit high heels really make your legs look
great...
While I personally find this a little out
of my league, I can see why a person could be into it. Being
filled with a nice big cock is a wonderful experience, having
something that much larger put inside you must be that much more
intense. NOT a game for the inexperienced to play. This
requires someone who knows what they're doing.
A well made uniform can bring out the best
in a man. It confers an aura of authority, of strength and commitment.
Whether you want to overpower that man, or be him, it certainly
draws the attention. There's also the mystique of a traditionally
all-male sub-culture. Just what goes on in those barracks after
lights out?
Not just gay men are cross-dressers. In
fact, I've read claims that the majority of men who cross-dress
for sexual excitement are heterosexual. But this can be a powerful
way to undermine gender roles and express yourself.
My uncle always used to say "Busy
hands are happy hands..."
u n i f o r m s
"I love a man in a uniform..."
Also known as "water sports" (WS
in the parlance of the personals), this refers to pissing on
someone, or having them piss on you. The thrill can come from
the physical feeling of hot liquid coursing down your body, or
from the degradation and humiliation of being used as a human
toilet. There is also the kick of breaking one of the most deeply
ingrained bodily taboos.
s c a t
One step beyond Golden Showers, scat is feces
play. Yes, shit. Again, this breaks a taboo that is trained into
us from a very early age and that can be a powerful turn-on.
To know that you are in control of your own inhibitions, that
you choose when and where to obey society's laws. (Ok, so I'm
talking through my hat. I actually have no clue as to why someone
would be turned on by either of these things, but people are.
Who ever said that sex was rational?)